This is a follow up topic from yesterday’s which was write about an area in your life you would like to improve on.
Today’s topic is – Conversely write about something that is kicking ass right now.
So, what am I doing great in my life, right now? I’m living knowing who I am and understanding my worth.
I have never placed enough value on myself. I now honor myself, even when others don’t understand my thoughts and actions.
I truly believe that you become enlightened to different parts of yourself as you mature and grow. Your twenties are for discovery and learning what you like. By your fifties, you know what you like. You definitely know what you dislike. You are sure that you want to live true to yourself. You realize what makes you happy and what behaviors you will not tolerate from others.
I’m more confident to say no to things, no to people and yes to me and my feelings. Therapy has helped me become more respectful of my feelings.
Oprah always says, what do you know for sure? I know for sure that I’m much better at judging people and realizing who should be in my space.
There have been many times when I would compromise my feelings when I felt uncomfortable, hurt or disrespected.
I never wanted to upset anyone. I didn’t complain. I would accept my discomfort. That left me filled with self doubt and confusion. I would rationalize why people acted or treated me a certain way. I won’t do that to myself anymore. It’s not psychologically healthy.
My fifth decade has allowed me to finally free my mind, like that En Vogue song. At 52, I’m putting myself and my needs first. My happiness and comfort are important.
It took me a long time to come to these realizations. This may sound selfish to some. However, I’m no longer forcing relationships, situations or keeping what doesn’t give me joy in my life anymore.
I’ve won and I’ve lost. I’ve learned some things the hardest way possible. I’ve released people and negativity. I let go of unhappiness. I’m now turning the compassion I’ve extended to others, inward and loving me the way I deserve to be loved. Better days are ahead.
At one time, these are the things I sought to improve upon. I have learned many lessons. I know more will follow until the end of my days.
I feel that I am kicking ass, being true to myself. This is me. I’m living with confidence and I’m not second guessing myself anymore. I am happy with who I am and who I continue to grow into.